Many adjectives come in pairs: bored and boring, excited and exciting. The -ed form tells us how a person feels. The -ing form describes the thing, situation or person that causes that feeling.
The pattern
I was bored in the meeting.
The meeting was boring.
01-ed: how you feel
Use the -ed adjective for a person's feelings: I'm bored, she was surprised, we're excited. It answers the question How do you feel?
- I'm so tired after my shift.
- We were excited about our trip to New Orleans.
- My parents were surprised by the news.
02-ing: what causes the feeling
Use the -ing adjective for the thing, place, situation or person that makes someone feel that way: a boring class, confusing directions, an exciting game.
- The directions to the stadium were confusing.
- Twelve-hour shifts are tiring.
- It was an embarrassing mistake.
| Feeling (-ed) | Cause (-ing) |
|---|---|
| bored | boring |
| interested | interesting |
| tired | tiring |
| confused | confusing |
| embarrassed | embarrassing |
| excited | exciting |
| surprised | surprising |
| annoyed | annoying |
03People can be both
A person can be -ed or -ing, but the meaning changes. I'm bored means I feel bored. I'm boring means I make other people feel bored! In the same way, a confused teacher doesn't understand something, but a confusing teacher is hard to understand.
So before you choose, ask: is this person feeling it, or causing it?
- My cousin is bored, so he's scrolling on his phone.
- My cousin is boring. He only talks about his car.
04Prepositions after -ed adjectives
Many -ed adjectives are followed by a preposition before a noun or an -ing form: interested in, excited about, bored with, tired of, confused about, surprised by, embarrassed about.
- Are you interested in the job?
- I'm tired of eating takeout every night.
- We were surprised by the price.
05Common mistakes
I'm very interesting in this job.
I'm very interested in this job.
Interested is how you feel. Interesting describes the job.
The movie was so bored that I left early.
The movie was so boring that I left early.
The movie causes the feeling, so use -ing.
I was so embarrassing when I forgot her name.
I was so embarrassed when I forgot her name.
You are describing your own feeling, so use -ed.
I'm exciting about my trip to New York.
I'm excited about my trip to New York.
Excited is the feeling. Exciting describes the trip.

